Will I get
full marks? Does he/she love me? Do I look good in this attire? Am I pretty? I
am no good for this job.
Uncertainty
is part of life... We all live with that hazy element... But, our present is
not muddled… It’s clear... It is evident and visible if we look for it… And in
that sense, we make our future, pretty clear too… Our future is designed by our
present…
We need to
ask questions like; What is my dream for my future? How should I build my
vision? How should I create my imagination into reality? How do I need to
present myself to the outer world? How me and my work should be, that we both
get positive recognition, respect and admiration? We need to be certain about:
I am an amazing person, I am beautiful from my heart, and I love myself and aspire
to be an optimistic person with confidence.
We have so many questions in our lives. We ask this type of questions
innumerable times to ourselves. Am I good enough? Am I eligible for this job?
Or it can be like I am no good; I don’t know what will happen to me; should I
do this?; I can’t aim that high; I would not be able to accomplish my goal... And many more…
Uncertainty
is part of life... We all live with that hazy element... But, our present is
not muddled… It’s clear... It is evident and visible if we look for it… And in
that sense, we make our future, pretty clear too… Our future is designed by our
present…
But we always
have these questions! We always come up with questions which are inaccurate,
off beam, uncertain, and vague. We always are not clear in our mind… If we are
clear for one thing, we may be vague about another. We always fear about the
future and think about the past… In this way we don’t enjoy our present life…
And these
questions are often asked to another person. Their views and opinions always
matter more than our own heart says. But why do we need to ask these uncertain
questions to ourselves or to others? Why we need to know these answers?
Getting full
marks, sure matters, one will definitely get that, if one had studied. One is
always good in his or her jobs if one knows his or her job! Beautiful heart is
more necessary than a pretty face, I guess. One can aim as much high as he or
she wants, one can aim for all that positivity, inspirations and optimism. One
can definitely be certain in his or her mind and heart.
I am not saying
one can’t ask any questions. Sure, one can! But those questions should not take
a toll in one’s life. The uncertain questions are mainly unenthusiastic and
unconstructive which can cause depression, dejection, hopelessness, misery,
gloominess etc… I had often thought in my past that I am fat, I am not fair, I
can’t get ninety out of hundred, I am not made for these subjects, or for these
beautiful dresses. Trust me, they made it worse. I was gloomy and sad, and
everything deteriorated.
So, we need
to say yes to positivity and optimism. Moreover we need to ask the right
questions! We need to be certain and confident for those correct questions and
reach our goals. A little uncertainty is always there, but we should be clear,
say 99%...
We need to
ask questions like; What is my dream for my future? How should I build my
vision? How should I create my imagination into reality? How do I need to
present myself to the outer world? How me and my work should be, that we both
get positive recognition, respect and admiration? We need to be certain about:
I am an amazing person, I am beautiful from my heart, and I love myself and aspire
to be an optimistic person with confidence.
We may not
get the answers at that moment. It might take time to reach our goals. To get
to that creation, we need to be patient. To get to that ambition we need to be stable.
And we need to have that trust, belief, faith, hope and confidence in
ourselves!
One may say I
am vague but not for the correct questions!
“Confidence
is something you create within yourself by believing in who you are.”
